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IN EVERY ROOM OF THE HOUSE
With all the different rooms and furniture options around the house
you can have sex from completely new angles to experience intensified
sensations, "says San Francisco therapist Johanina Wikoff,
PhD, author of The Complete Idiot's Guide to the Kama Sutra. And
just knowing you're pushing boundaries together is an incredible
aphrodisiac. So read on, because every essential you need to morph
your pad into a passion playground is right at your disposal.
The Place: Hallway
The Position: Back to the Wall Quickie
Hike up your skirt or slide down your jeans, then face your guy
and lean against the wall with your legs slightly spread. Next guide
his hands to the backs of your thighs, and wrap your arms around
his neck as he lifts you up and holds your legs snugly against his
hips. "Plant both of your feet against the opposite wall for
leverage, suggest Los Angeles sex therapist Don Etkes, PhD, author
of Loving with Passion.
Or if your hallway isn't narrow enough, wrap one leg around him and
plant the other foot on a low stool to support your weight and give
you height to reach his pelvis."
This primal position is perfect for fast sex because you achieve
intense clitoral contact as he presses against you to maintain the
position, explains Etkes. Plus, your guy is able to thrust deeply.
As an added bonus for him, clamp your thighs as snugly as possible
around his waist. "Tightening your grip will narrow the vaginal
canal and create very pleasurable friction for him, "says Etkes.
The torso to torso intimacy of this move means you can dive in for
hot, wet kisses to feel more connected.
The Place: Bathroom
The Position: Hot Red
Strip down to your birthday suit and stand at the edge of the tub, lightly holding on to (not hanging off of) the shower rod to keep your balance. Have your man kneel on the bath mat in front of you. Now shift all of your weight onto your right leg (remember, the shower rod is just to steady you) as you lift your left leg and hang it over his right shoulder, pulling him in closer to zero in on your highly sensitive spots. This up close view of your moan zones is a huge turn on for your man, and your raised leg gives him VIP access (sans neck cramps). "Now that he can actually see what he's doing down there, says Wikoff, have him slowly explore the whole area orally."
Because the only contact on your body is his mouth, you can really relax and focus your attention completely on the pleasure pulsating from that small, intensely nerve-packed area. As you feel the heat building between your gams, rotate your pelvis in small, teasing circles to guide him around your hot spots for added sensation. When you feel an O building, have him squeeze your buns for skin-tingling pressure.
The Place: Living Room
The Position: Randy Recliner
Start by having your guy lie back a recliner chair with his legs
spread. Next, straddle his lap facing him and nestle your knees on
either side of his hips, allowing your feet to rest on the chair
comfortably. "Place a small pillow behind his lower back to
bring his pelvis more toward you, "says Deborah Cooper, PhD,
a relationship and sex therapist in Los Angeles. "This ensures
he's in the perfect position to maximize clitoral contact once the
chair is moved into position.
Push the recline lever to move his body back 45 degrees, and place
your hands on either side of his head for balance. Have him grip
your lips, thighs, or butt while you lower yourself down on him,
and begin grinding in a deep forward and back motion.
This may look like traditional girl on top position, but it has incredible
climax angles, explains Cooper. "In addition to enabling you
to have complete control of the rhythm and speed, "she says, "the
unique way your bodies are angled on an incline enables him to stimulate
your G-spot directly. "Next rest your chest on his and grind
in a slower motion, really pushing your pelvis into his with every
stroke. "This move will switch the stimulation to your clitoris
and stabilize your pleasure levels for a longer lovemaking session,"says
Cooper. Can you say intense orgasm?
The Place: Stairs
The Position: Stairway to Heaven
For some rave-worthy rear entry fun, all you have to do is pause on your way upstairs. Assume an all –fours position on the steps (if they aren't carpeted, make sure you throw down a towel) with your back to him. Kneel on a lower stair and lean forward onto your elbows two or three step up. Now lower your body and push it back toward your guy. "Have him stand two steps below your knees and use his hands to guide your hips so they align directly with his penis, "says Etkes. As he enters you from behind, you can assert a little carnal control: By arching your back into a small bump, you shorten your vagina so he'll do only shallow thrusts; arch it the other way and he'll go really deep, "explains sexpert Debbie Tideman, author of the X-Spot Orgasm. To kick your pleasure up a notch, have him slide all the way in and stay there while you rotate your hips in small circles. "In this pose, the head of his penis will stimulate your cervix,"says Tideman. "You don't want him to use deep thrusts because it can be painful, but very light contact can help you build toward a powerful climax.
The Place: Dining Room
The Position: Tantric Tabletop
This smooth, flat surface gives you an ideal combo of just-right height, blissful body angles, and hands-on intimacy. "With your guy standing in front of you, lie back on the table with your butt right on the edge, "explains Wikoff. Have him cradle your tush in his hands and raise you off the table at a 20-degree angle-prop a pillow under your butt to assist. He can then guide you up to a comfortable point of entry as your inner thighs tighten around his torso and your feet hook together behind his back to lock your bodies into position. "In this sex pose, you can both experience a slow buildup in pleasure-which results in a longer, stronger orgasm-by having him thrust in a slow, easy rhythm, says Wikoff. As he's slowly grinding, arch your back and grind your pelvis up and around in circles. "Your entire pelvic region will be stimulated at once, and your body is angled in such a way that he'll enjoy deep penetration while grazing your G-spot. "Hint: You also have easy access to stimulate yourself.
The Place: Kitchen
The Position Kinky Sink
Ready for a little Naked Chef action? Strip down and hop onto the
edge of the sink, facing him, with your tush dipping slightly into
the basin. Brace yourself with your palms on the edges of the sink
behind you and spread your legs. Next, have your guy grab the spray
nozzle in the sink and lightly spray warm water all over your inner
thighs and vulva, says Etkes. (Throw a towel on the floor at his
feet to reduce hip slip factor.) The warm water will relax your body
and make your erogenous zones highly sensitized and far more receptive
to orgasm. "He can use his free hand to rub one or two fingers
lightly around your bliss button in slow circles while letting the
water trickle over the area.
When you're so sizzling hot that you can hardly handle it, hook your
legs around the back of his inner thighs for some over the basin
booty: "Wrap your arms around his back and draw your bodies
in superclose, then have him pull out just one or two inches and
move in and out in short, fast strokes." Vary the pleasure points
he's hitting on you by arching or curling your back, say every six
to eight thrusts. "This rapid, repetitive rhythm combined with
your subtle movements will stimulate a much higher number of nerve
endings toward the front of your vagina, "says Etkes. For him,
clamping onto his buns nice and tight will spike his arousal and
send a bolt of pleasure through his body before you both blast off.
The Place: Laundry
The Position: Lusty Spin Cycle
You'll never think doing the laundry is a drag after trying this
pulsating pose: Pull off your panties, toss them into the hot wash,
and graze your lips over his mouth and along his neck as the machine
warms up. "Once you feel heat emanating out of the washer, stand
facing the machine with your legs spread slightly and bend over so
your body is at right angle, "says Wikoff. "The extra heat
will help get the blood flowing to your pelvic region." Have
your man slowly enter you from behind, and then curl right over your
body, laying his arms on yours over the top of the machine.
This pose will give your guy maximum depth and control, "explains
Wikoff. Coupled with the va-va-vibrations you'll feel against your
moan zones as the spin cycle kicks into high gear, you'll experience
two risqué sensations on the back and front of your nether
regions. Raring to go again? Double up on that spin cycle and your
climax will be off the charts.