Welcome to PleasedLovers.com; a site designed to provide some advice, answers and perhaps a few alternatives to couples with regard to their intimacy, relationship and how they are interdependent.

First and foremost, just because you read it here does not necessarily guarantee that your partner will accept changes, suggestions, alternatives or even embrace the enlightenment collected, noted and posted throughout PleasedLovers.com.

For some people a good sex life comes naturally and that’s wonderful. As time goes on people change and sometimes the intimacy becomes dull and turns into a duty; that is a tragedy and can be easily avoided by simply using some of the techniques described within PleasedLovers.com. For others, a good sex life is difficult because they are scared, unskilled or just plain clueless as to how to please their lover/partner.

A few of things to keep in mind:

Keep an open mind; listen to your partner and really hear what they have to say.

Don’t be the judge or the jury; everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

Loosen up and relax; learn to enjoy life, love and a good sexual relationship.

Don’t just lay there! Get involved and talk about your needs and desires.

We all change, grow, get older and wiser; but we still need to play and have fun.

If life becomes difficult as the fun & spunk begins to run low, couples tend to fight. Following that, intimacy starts to disappear and then the real troubles will begin. You need to keep in mind that you each need to satisfy the needs of each other and sometimes that means doing things that you wouldn’t normally say or let alone think of doing.

However, “if you just give things a chance you might find that you’ll get what you need”.

Yes, you can have love without sex and you can even have a life without sex; some are doing just that, right now. What we offer here is completely free, without charge, simple and yet detailed advice on how you can please each other. Sometimes you can please your partner with just a simple hug (with feeling), a loving smile or even a little compliment and don’t forget to listen.

People like to refer to now-a-days as the cause of their intimacy problems, love life or lack thereof rather than admit that these problems have been around since we first walked the Earth. Therefore you are free, you are not alone, and you and everyone else can benefit from sharing with your partner, spouse, boyfriend, girl friend, or life partner. Jobs put pressure on relationships, striving to succeed in business is extremely costly to one’s love life, trying to unknowingly mold your partner into someone they are not can be devastating to your sex life and will smash your love life when discovered; be up front.

There is no written rule or spiritual one for that matter that states; you must take the first person you are intimate with to become your life partner. Yet many people do just that, they feel compelled to get married now that they have had a toss in the sack with one specific person. Sadly, this is not a good measure in choosing a partner. You should take time to get to know them, know who they really are and not just their favorite movie.

Find out what makes them happy, sad and especially upset, so that you can avoid the issue or choose someone else if you cannot adapt. The same should equally apply to your partner from their perspective towards you as being unhappy all of your life is completely unnecessary as it can be easily avoided, or improved. You just need to be willing to find someone else who is able to make you happy that you are able to adapt to, be open with, and comfortable with of which you can speak and discuss your most intimate desires without fear of recourse.

Please feel free to look around and explore our website and its content. We are certain that you will find something of use or at least some insight.